Imam Ibn Hazm (Rahimahullah) said:
“If you find that you have a natural inclination towards a particular science – even if that science is inferior to others – don’t preoccupy yourself with other than it, lest you become like the one who tries to grow coconut trees in Andalus (Spain) or olive trees in India; these futile efforts will not bear any fruits.”*
(Al-Akhlaq was-Siyar 1/22, quote translated by Shah Idris @Shahidris9 on Twitter.)
The lessons that we can take from the quote above are:
Follow Your True Calling
Pursue knowledge that resonates with your heart, for therein lies your true potential and fulfillment. Choose a field of study or a sport based on your genuine interest, not due to external pressures.
Avoid Futile Pursuits
Do not waste time on endeavors that do not suit your nature. Success stems from aligning effort with aptitude. Engaging in work that you dislike is less likely to make you an expert, leading instead to dissatisfaction and a lackluster performance.
Respect the Nature of Each Field
Every science and skill has its own place and value. Understand where you excel and focus your energies there. No art, science, or skill is of lesser value as long as it is permissible and beneficial according to the Qur’an and Sunnah. This principle is crucial when pursuing your interests and respecting others’ choices, even if they seem ‘lowly’ but are permissible and beneficial.
Maximize Your Strengths
Concentrate on your natural strengths, as it is through them that you can achieve excellence and contribute meaningfully to society.
Parenting Insight
Parents should recognize that each child is unique. Forcing a child into a pursuit they do not desire, despite it being Islamically permissible, is less beneficial than supporting them in their natural interests and talents. This approach fosters genuine growth and satisfaction.
–Benefits added by Mohammed bin Thajammul Hussain Manna.
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