
Mujahid (Rahimahullah) ne farmaya, “Main ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr (Radi Allahu Anhuma) ke paas tha jab unka ghulam ek bakri ki khaal utaar raha tha (zibah karne ke baad). Unhone kaha, ‘Aye ladke! Jab tum farigh ho jao, toh Yahudi padosi se pehle (bantna) shuru karna.’ Wahan maujood ek shakhs ne hairat se kaha, ‘Yahudi? Allah aap ki islah kare!’ Unhone jawab diya, ‘Maine Allah ke Rasool (Salallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) ko padosiyon ke sath acche sulook ki itni takeed karte hue suna hai, yahan tak ke humein dar lagne laga (ya humne socha) ke aap kahin unhein humara waris na bana dein.'”
(Al-Adab ul-Mufrad az Imam Al-Bukhari, Sahih (Al-Albani))
Imam al-Qurtubi: “Main kehta hoon: is bunyad par, padosiyon ke sath acha sulook karne ka hukm aur takeed ki gayi hai, chahe woh Musalman hon ya na hon. Aur yahi theek baat hai. Ache sulook ka matlab unki madad karna ho sakta hai ya unke sath narmi baratna, unhein takleef dene se bachna aur unka sath dena ho sakta hai.”
— al-Qurtubi (islamQA.info)
Amal karein: Jab bhi aap fruits ya mithai khareedein, aur agar Allah ne aapko maal mein farawani (barkat) di ho, toh apne padosiyon ke sath baantne ke liye kuch extra khareedne par ghaur karein, chahe unka mazhab kuch bhi ho. Sab ko ek hi waqt mein baantne ki zarurat nahi hai — aahista aahista, kabhi ek padosi aur kabhi dusre ko, tohfa dena bilkul theek hai, chahe tohfa kitna chota hi kyu na ho. (authenticseerah.com)
(Compiled and written by Mohammed bin Thajammul Hussain Manna.)